
Chapter 04
3 Months in Malaysia & Indonesia
All the freedom and independence of solo travel - with none of the heavy-lifting.
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–From £697 per week
Only 6-8 spots available
Availability
Slow travel for 3 Months across Malaysia & Indonesia.
2026
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2027
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Why DECADES
This is DECADES Chapter 04 – a three-month journey for 6-8 adventurous retirees who want more than a holiday. We’ve designed it to help you live your retirement the way you always hoped you would.
Glorious slow travel
Stays of 7–10 days in each location so you can find your favourite café, get to know the locals, and actually relax.
Structure without constraints
One group adventure day each week; the rest is yours to explore your bucket list.
Small group, handpicked
You apply to join; we choose the right mix of curious, adventurous, active people.
Support with zero flag-waving
Your host is there for travel and adventure days, and always on call.
A little bit of luxury
Private room, air con, Wi-Fi, beautiful shared spaces, and a pool whenever possible.
Book a free 30-minute chat with Laura. Explore if the trip’s right for you!
Highlights included
🛏️ Your very own room
Enjoy your own space every night – no single supplement required. Prefer to share? If someone takes you up on the offer, you’ll get a discount. Either way, you’ll have a private, comfortable base to relax and unwind between adventures.
🏡 Beautiful places to stay
Spend the month in handpicked accommodation – boutique hotels, villas, or stylish apartments. Air-con, wifi, shared spaces, and pools wherever possible give you a perfect balance of comfort, style, and a truly welcoming base to return to each day.
🪚 Volunteering Week
Help build safe homes for Malaysia's Orang Asli. EPIC Homes mobilises volunteers to raise funds and construct a house in just three to four days. Together, volunteers and locals bridge the rural–urban divide, empowering families and creating lasting community bonds.
🍉 Off-beat adventure days
Step away from the tourist trail with four unique experiences – stay with a Mekong Delta family, ride the stunning coastal route from Hoi An to Hue, join a silent retreat at a temple in northern Thailand and nine more adventure days like these ones organised for you.
😄 Consistent, friendly host
From airport pick-up to farewell, your host is your go-to person. They’ll join group adventures, travel days, and keep things running smoothly. Need a restaurant tip, help with plans, or someone to help if you’re feeling under the weather? They’re always nearby.
🇲🇾🇮🇩 Airport pick up / drop
Start and end your trip stress-free. Your host will greet you at the airport on arrival and make sure you’re safely returned when it’s time to go. No taxi haggling or uncertainty – just a warm welcome and a smooth, easy finish to your journey.
Ultimate slow travel itinerary
Malaysia
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Adventure Day #1 – x
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Coming soon! We’re finalising villas for this trip, with our top choice set in the quiet of District 2 in Ho Chi Minh City. With a pool, garden and generous shared spaces, it offers the perfect balance of connection and calm.
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Sleeper Train #1 – Heading North
Settle into your cabin as the city lights fade. The rhythm of the rails rocks you northward, carrying you towards the slower mornings and riverside cafés of Hoi An. It won’t be the best night’s sleep of your life, but it will be a good story.
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Explore: colonial landmarks, incense-filled temples, Cholon’s pagodas and alleyways.
Taste: sizzling street stalls, hidden cafés, rooftop bars, street-food-by-scooter tours.
Escape: Can Gio’s mangroves, Vung Tau beaches, Cao Dai Temple.
Give back: teaching, clean-ups, community projects.Read our Own Time Guide for more ideas (coming soon).
Indonesia
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Adventure Day #2 – Cooking, Hội An Style
In the morning bustle of the central market, you’ll choose bright herbs, fragrant spices, and fresh vegetables. Back in the kitchen, steam rises from the wok as you learn to make local dishes with a local chef — we imagine everything from crisp spring rolls to rich cao lầu noodles — then sit down together for a feast of your own making.
Adventure Day #3 – Motorbiking the Coast from Hội An to Da Nang
The road over the Hai Van Pass curves between mountains and sea, with salt in the air and the sound of waves below. Along the way, stop at fishing villages, hidden beaches, and panoramic viewpoints arriving just in time for your next sleeper train. (We’ll transport your luggage so you’re free to enjoy the feeling of wind in your hair, as such). -
Coming soon! We’re finalising villas for Hoi An, with our top choice a light, airy retreat just a short walk from the Ancient Town. With a private pool and restful interiors, it offers the perfect base to soak up the town’s culture at an easy pace.
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Sleeper Train #2 – Heading North
Off we go again. Time to trade the coast for the capital — where history hides in narrow alleys and street corners hum with evening chatter.
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Explore: Hội An’s markets, tailors, temples, lantern-making workshops.
Taste: market snacks, riverside seafood, craft cocktails.
Escape: An Bang Beach, Cham Islands, My Son temple ruins.
Give back: beach clean-ups, teaching English in nearby villages.Read our Own Time Guide for more ideas (coming soon).
Sounds good, but prefer to try something shorter first?
Dip your toe into slow travel with a 1 month adventure - choose from various locations across Asia.
Featured Stays
Subject to quality control trip in October & November 2025
Our kind of people
If you’re open-minded, relaxed and curious, you’re welcome at DECADES. If you’ve travelled a bunch, or not at all. If you’ve worked all your life in an office, or in a hospital. If you’ve raised children, or dogs, or looking after yourself was quite enough. There’s space for us all here.
Maggie
“I want to get back to the travel I used to love. DECADES is perfect because of the mix of adventure, safety and comfort”.
Alison
“DECADES gives me beautiful locations, great company, and the freedom to do my own thing without the hassle of organising it all myself”.
No one arrives as strangers.
As soon as your trip is confirmed, we’ll add you to a WhatsApp group so you can get to know your fellow travellers before you meet in person.
Pricing
90 days from £x – includes
90x nights in your own room
all internal transfers
on-call host
1x adventure day per week
small group of new friends
YOUR OWN ROOM
Solo travel is our default - no single supplement
£x for 3 months
just £x / wk
Apply today for just £895 deposit
What’s included
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🛏️ 3 months of high-quality accommodation
🚙 All internal transfers
🌴 Weekly hosted experience
📍 DECADES trip host for smooth logistics and local know-how
👥 Carefully selected group of 6-8 travellers
📨 Ongoing support from our team before, during and after the trip
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International flights - fly from where you want, when you want, how you want.
Food & drink - food is immersion. Mix exploring local haunts with cooking at home as you fancy.
Insurance & vaccinations - unique to each of us, we each handle our own insurance.
Visas - unique to our passports, we each handle our own visas.
FAQs
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Absolutely. In fact, most of our travellers come solo. DECADES was designed specifically with solo retirees in mind.
That means you’ll have your own room as standard - a private space to recharge when you want it - but also built-in community when you don’t. Think shared dinners, cards evenings, spontaneous day trips if you want them, and plenty of time lounging around the poolside with new friends.
We also heard that having a safety net was important - that’s why you’ll also have a dedicated DECADES host; there to welcome you at the airport, plan the fun bits, and be on-call throughout for anything you need.
Check out the retirees we built DECADES with and for here
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It’s a fair question — and a common one. You’re spending three months with new people, and that can feel like a big leap.
The good news is: to an extent, the group is curated. Everyone fills in an application form so we can get a sense of their outlook, travel style and whether they’re in the right headspace for a trip like this. It’s not about perfection — just making sure there are no red flags, and that everyone’s open, respectful and kind.
If you're up for it, we’ll introduce you in a private group space before the trip. You’ll have time to say hello, share a bit about yourself, and get familiar with the others — so the first day feels exciting, not awkward.
Out there, you’ll have your own room to retreat to, and a DECADES host on hand for support, structure and to gently guide group dynamics without ever forcing connection.
You don’t need to click with everyone. But you’ll likely find a few people who just get it — and that’s where the magic happens.
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Each villa is like an oasis — a calm, comfortable base to return to after the buzz of exploring.
You’ll have your own private room, plus beautiful shared spaces designed for connection: open-plan lounges, shaded terraces, and a pool to cool off in — in most locations. (A few cities, like Hanoi, simply weren’t built with pools in mind, but we prioritise comfort and charm wherever we go.)
There’s a fully equipped kitchen if you feel like cooking, Wi-Fi, air conditioning, and all the modern comforts that make long-term travel feel easy.
We’ll share photos before you go — but the feeling is always the same: clean, safe, relaxed, and somewhere you can truly settle in.
Take a look at the kind of thing we have in mind here
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Yes — and we’ll help you figure it all out, step by step.
For most people, these are simple, low-hassle requirements. We’ll send you a clear checklist covering visa info, recommended vaccinations, and what kind of travel insurance you’ll need — plus trusted resources to make it all feel manageable.
You won’t be left guessing. We’re here to support you with the admin, as well as the adventure.
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We keep things relaxed — this is long-form travel, not a packed itinerary like a tour or a cruise.
You’ll have one fully hosted day each week, organised for the group and led by your DECADES host.
The rest of the week? Completely yours. Explore the area, read by the pool, take a nap after lunch — or head off on a solo jaunt (or see who’s up for joining you) as you follow whatever drew you to the region.
We’re always nearby if you want suggestions or help planning something. But mostly, we leave you space to settle in, find your own rhythm, and immerse yourself in a new reality.
Ahh, the joys of slower travel.
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If you like the idea of travelling slowly, having time to really get to know each place, and balancing hosted experiences with free time, this is for you. It works best for people who are curious, open to new cultures, and happy to mix comfort with the occasional adventure.
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You’ll fly into Ho Chi Minh City (Tan Son Nhat International Airport – SGN) at the start of the trip. At the end, you’ll depart from Hanoi (Noi Bai International Airport – HAN).
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We’ll let you know when your trip is confirmed!
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We’ll let you know when your trip is confirmed!
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For most nationalities, a Vietnam e-visa is the simplest option. Apply online before you travel; it’s valid for 90 days and allows multiple entries if needed. Check the official Vietnam Immigration website for the latest requirements for your passport.
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Each month includes four hosted adventure days and all travel between bases. The rest is designed to be flexible so you can follow your own interests.
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Most days are your own. We’ll suggest ideas in each location, but you decide how to spend them — whether that’s exploring, joining a day trip, or simply relaxing.
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There are no “gotcha” costs. The main things you’ll need to budget for are meals on non-hosted days, optional activities, local transport in your free time, and personal spending. We’ll give you an estimate for each location so you can plan ahead.
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You should be comfortable walking for a couple of hours at a time, including in hot and humid conditions. Some hosted days could include cycling, kayaking, gentle hiking or motorbiking, but we always offer options to go at your own pace.
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Yes. Your host will be with you throughout, travelling between bases and joining each hosted adventure day — so you’ll always have a familiar face for questions or recommendations.
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Good in cities and towns including at our bases — fast enough for video calls, with cafés and co-working spaces if you need more. Rural areas and overnight trains can be patchy, so download anything important in advance.
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We choose comfortable, characterful stays — think boutique hotels, villas, or stylish apartments. All have air conditioning, spaces to relax and cook in, plus good wifi. Occasionally, hosted nights (like a Mekong homestay or boat) will be simpler but we think must-do.
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Expect warm to hot temperatures year-round, with some regional variation. Ho Chi Minh is tropical and humid; Hoi An is warm with possible showers; Hanoi and the north can be cooler in the evenings, especially from December to February. We’ll send a seasonal guide before you pack.
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Light, breathable clothing; comfortable walking shoes; a light rain jacket; swimwear; sun protection; and any personal medication. We’ll provide a full packing list tailored to the season closer to departure.
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Food is not included — and that’s deliberate. Choosing where and what to eat is one of the best ways to explore a new place, whether you’re after street food, market snacks, or a fine-dining splurge. It also gives you control over your budget and dietary preferences. We’ll give you local recommendations in each location so you can make the most of it.
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For now, the itinerary gives a very good idea of how the trip will go - but the exact number of days can flex as we organise the ins and outs, transport availability, etc. Once we confirm your trip, the itinerary will be fixed. This means you’ll be able to book things for your own time well in advance and let your friends and family know where we’ll be.